Avoid dating men with kids
Throughout the years, I've profiled swingers, people who practice polyamory, those into kink and countless sex workers.
Inevitably though, when asking about specifics, I become that little girl, who at 8 years old was told by my grandmother, "never let a man see you naked — even your husband." Yes, she really said that. My other grandmother, a devout Christian, had persistent, dire warnings for me: "never commit the sex sin." Then, in Mrs.
Incidentally, if my recollection serves me right, I believe I was the only Asian kid in the class as well.
Asians as a culture aren't exactly the most communicative bunch, especially when it comes to personal matters. Spect felt compelled to make a personal visit to my home to talk to my father.
But for some reason, whenever I've had to talk to someone about matters pertaining to sex, my heart begins to pulsate wildly and I start to giggle involuntarily.
I haven't always been responsible about condom or birth control use, so I've left myself open on numerous occasions to unwanted pregnancies and STDs, both of which are rampant in our country, the latter now more than ever.
While our teenage and unwanted pregnancy rates have declined significantly, we lag far behind many other industrialized nations, and have gaping disparities based on race/ethnicity, income and geographical location.
I have confronted a Pakistani government official about nuclear proliferation.
I've interrogated a leader of the Revolutionary Armed Forces of Colombia about drug trafficking.
Despite this progress, rates in the US are still higher than many other industrialized nations.